Are "MEN" becoming more open minded about gay feelings?

I say men only because no offense to women. Men just seem to have it harder in society when it comes to being gay. You think men who are either latent homosexual, closet homophobes in denial or even straight guys are becoming open minded about giving the gay life style a chance? I know I am not straight but I am not fully gay I am just not repressing my homosexuality anymore. I am enabling it instead of abstaining from it. Although I still love women. Sure I love gay porn but I wouldn't mind meeting a nice guy and being romantic with him. But also women are welcome too. Its just for being 18 and for 7 years gay porn coincided with straight porn. Now at age 18 i am focusing on my gay side. Is anyone agree with my statement and theory I have going on here. I don't know why I was so homophobic in the past. I actually love the idea of men sharing interest, kissing, holding hands, making love and overall just loving. So what do you think